My debut in the papers :)

http://www.standardmedia.co.ke/InsidePage.php?id=2000046764&cid=616&

WHY YOU RUN AWAY FROM LOVE, LITTLE BOY

You can’t seem to settle down
Seems to be too many toys around
What you gonna do about the girls whose hearts you’re breaking
Can’t you see the damage of the libertys you’re taking


Why you run away from love little boy
There’s nothing wrong with a little love little boy
You’re gonna end up all alone little boy
So why you run away from love little boy

You can’t tell me your heart don’t feel nothing
Cause when you first met the girl
It could not stop jumping
Now you seem to be holding back
Emotionally you’re empty
You must try to let yourself go
And taste what you’ve been missing


Why must you have to want to go on this way
You don’t seem to ever want to change your ways
All you have to do is to decide to give her one chance
And you just might find there is some goodness inside romance


Lonliness is a serious thing
I want her to be there by my side every night cos it’s right
Not joking, i’m not joking, not joking, i’m not joking
Put aside your pride before it’s too late you might fade away
Be strong hold onto your love

MOJO

I must feel everything!
I want it to hurt to the core,
the kind of feeling I cant ignore
It must choke the life out of me so that I can survive
and bleed again.
In my mind theres a lions den,
I often dream that they attack me
I must sleep,please do not wake me,
They must tear all my ligaments,
Lick my blood and all its condiments.
I want to feel,raw,pure pain
feel every prick,swallow every grain,
It must disturb me surely
Make me dull and gaudy,
I want to fill the expanse of my body
Every nooke and cranny
Fossil fuel me to the past
Ashes to ashes,dust to dust
How else will I remember
Never to be here again...

I must feel it all
The lion...slain

JILL PHILLIPS-HANGING ON

The weight I fastened on trying to make my world run
Almost pinned me to the floor
I could not orchestrate one solitary day
And the more I worked I found my efforts all in vain
I believe that I need to let go of these things
To be free
So help me stop this hanging on
All my worry got was more of what I did not want
A love of power and control
Every hour running kept me in my starting place
When I finally rested I began to win this race
There is only so much I can do with these two hands
Precious is the freedom when I finally understand
That I need to let go of these things

FORGIVENESS AND ALL THAT

So I have recently gotten my heart broken in very familiar circumstances, I was fooled by human nature.

Heart breaks are not restricted to relationships that are romantic, I have come to discover. In fact friendship and family can break your heart far worse, mainly because you never saw it coming. Never in your wildest dream did you think your best friend would betray you or your brother or sister would turn on you.

But human beings do what they do best, they hurt others. It is up to us to choose whether we will stick around for a second helping or do something about it.

What am I talking about? Forgiveness.

Forgiveness sucks, nay, it sucks ROTTEN EGGS! But it is so important especially when you are tired of beating yourself up, coming up with different scenarios and explanations and yup, are done being depressed.

I for one don't mind sharing that I have been depressed for a good portion of my life. Waking up in the morning and not feeling like living is not a good thing. Whether it is self inflicted or situational, depression, like heart break, like forgiveness belong to the same sucky club, in fact they play golf and organise play dates!

For these and many reasons, I tend to fast forward my pain. I imagine myself with another man who loves me for me and is faithful, I day dream about coffee dates with my battery of girlfriends who laugh at my every joke and understand when I don't, I dream that I am an only child...ok that Donald Trump is my brother or Barrack Obama!

This is generally because; living in the present sucks as well. I mean who wants to feel now, now is painful, now bears no fruit, now is hard. If you are living in the future however you can create your own utopia, you can orchestrate the steps that led you there, or not. The present forces you to live, the past lets you reminisce and the future allows you to die to your present.

And for this and many reasons, forgiveness hurts. I am the kind of person I want bad things to happen to you. You hurt me I pray that God punishes you and if He is too busy dealing with the Holocaust victims or the Japanese Tsunami or our MP's, I call on his universal accomplice called Karma. Oh don't I like dishing the line, “Karma is a bitch and will get you." I say it with an emotional similar to the one Lady Macbeth called upon the spirits to "unsex her" I call upon it with the same measure of pain that is, at that time, causing my heart to pump faster. Karma needs to avenge me. Why? It is only fair that if you have caused me a proportional amount of bodily or emotional heartbreak that you should feel the same, I mean you must! Kwani? (Next open mic is September 6th at 7p.m Clubb Soundd by ze way!)

However, I also know the rot unforgiveness causes. It eats at you slowly, you don’t even realise how bitter you become. You begin to hate your partner, you begin to bitch about your friends to other friends in their absence, and you alienate yourself from your family and by extension, their world! Unforgiveness, like forgiveness suck. They both take time to settle in and they don't feel very nice. However, unlike unforgiveness, forgiveness has a mature result. Like life. You can only learn through experience right? The same with forgiveness, you can only become a better person through it. You drink your enemy’s poison, that’s how odd forgiveness feels like. But it is the only way to live in the present.

Living in the present doesn't have to suck though if you live a moment at a time. If you start bundling stuff together especially all the things you have NOT done like for me: doing my masters, buying a car, paying my HELB loan, being normal, I get overwhelmed and start feeling defeated. However if I plan on how to do shit like save, get a side hustle, empower myself to get another job, the present becomes bearable because it is in tandem with the future, they are hand in hand.

So, I have chosen to start my year now and forgive. I am so bitter about stuff that I can’t change and even if I could, I would still propagate it somehow. I am done. It's time to live.

Finally, forgiveness, like life is a choice. If you wake up in the morning and want to blast yourself and don't, you have lived. If you wake up in the morning calling upon Karma and all her evil step sisters, then you might as well look for a gun, and aim at the heart, where it bleeds the most.

I am a woman because of a man
who fell in love with my mother
and proved that yes he can have sperms that swim
faster that Michael Phelps and with his help
I learned to call him daddy and love my mummy
because she is mum coz he is dad
a man

I am a woman because of a man
who fell in love with me or was it I to him
my fixation on him was nearly a sin
as I gave him access to that soul within
and watched with that same liberty as he used that freedom to crush me
I am now stronger and a wiser lover
because I was a lover
to a man
...ok an asshole ( doesn't have to rhyme)

I am a woman because of a man
He is the Great I am
who looks at my tempest and is never shaken
who hungs out with me, through hell and through heaven
He told me that I am not forgoten and am highly favoured
with his romantic words I now adorn a swagger
I hold my head up High because I belong to the Most High
because He is both God and Man

I am still a woman because of a man
for those who call me sister, auntie
and for those who will call me wife
because you see the woman in me and treat me accordingly
treating me with gentleness, speaking to me attentively
arousing my feminine whiles, letting me hug your pain away
letting me cry and smile,whin and advice, follow and have my way
I am a woman , not ashamed to be called one
I am phenomenal through and through whether am a size 6 or 10
I have been since I was born and even in death even then
I will thank the men who had a hand in letting me say
I am a woman because of a man....amen and amen!

Tired

I am so tired of being alone
Am tired of wanting to get along
Can I add, Sick and tired of being broke
Very tired of people taking me as a joke because
I don't comb my hair or have a flare that is womanlike
sure when my jeans are tight
you might like what you see but you see
dressing up isn't me
It stems from a past of covering my body up
I was afraid if I showed too much, my cup would overflow
and there we would go again and again and again so I got tired...

Tired of being called a tom boy
I mean...who the hell is Tom?
And I know that because of my dad I look like a boy
but I call it reflection
From a man who sired a woman who can change a nation
I love the fact that I look like my dad
So I'll be damned if true love tells me to take it all back
To weave it, nail polish, to give sexy back
I am beautiful even when my "fashion"is under attack

Dont you find it wierd that we all dress the same
and depending on your shade or colour,
It may add or reduce your fame
Like a big family that shops at deacons,
it's lame
To brand someone fashionable
Because their dress has a centimetre wide lable.

I am just saying
am tired of being alone
In this war of clothes
dont get me wrong, look smart, feel better about your woes
but if you do it for esteem?
Then your inner beauty is dim
No matter what they say you are a cherubim
so stop acting like sheep and act your image...HIM!

I wear clothes that fit my body
Hells yeah am sexy
Got legs that run all the way up
you know you want to touch me
But I choose to slip them into trousers
Not because I dont have the hours
to shop for a dress
But because I impress even in my distress jeans
coz am tighter than a Cavalli seam
I am a cherubim
reflection of a creation
Am just sayin.....
I am HIM