Monday, 5 November 2007

love is inately a very beautiful thing. I am currently in love by the way and having been in a shitty relationship before, I am honestly thanking God for being in a nice one. I am one of those species, if I like you? that's it...I will do everything I possibly can to ensure you know it often enough. Because of this interesting trait, I suffer from limerence: an involuntary state of mind which seems to result from a romantic attraction for another person combined with an overwhelming obsessive need to have ones feelings reciprocated....yah! it exists

But with time;God and life's bitch slappings, I am learning how to Love without discourse. Coz you see if you love someone, you do so unconditionally, without writing a quotation for payment. It is an awesome thing to love for loves sake. Sure am not stupid, reciprocity is key in every relationship, but if you wanna do or say something coz you feel it, say it now, while you still can. Not because your waiting for their turn ama ur thinking "huyo kijana kananizoea. Jana i bought my dude ice cream and it was nice and he juas he doesnt have to return the favour except just sit , giggle and watch me guzzle down zit fertilizer..lol
POINT:LOVE someone coz you want to, coz you can and coz they need you to...but above all love yourself coz they will, they may not and coz you want them to

(a moment for the deepness)

5 comments:

Jaime said...

i like your blog.keep writting

Jaime said...

i like your blog.keep writting

Violas Iris said...
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Violas Iris said...

totally agree with you. am at the point in life where if i feel that i need to show or express my affection for you then so be it.

the other night i was already 10 mins into my sleep when i got this warm feeling about people in my life. i woke up and smsed them all until credit got finished, my fear was that 'what if either of us didn't wake up in the morning and i hadn't told them i loved them?'

Wuod Nyar G'Otumba said...

May in the giving you find love rather than in the receiving and expecting: Love is not blind, it is seeing in the other what the rest do not...of course it sometimes can be the overestimation of the qualities of the other!! Enjoy!